We all know that Hashem rules the world, and there is no way to predict when the right one will come. Sometimes I worry a little, too – I really do want to get married – but then I think of how much good there is right now for me to appreciate.
Thank you Hashem, You gave me a wonderful family, meaning in life, food, clothes, work, good friends, electricity, YWN, education, mentors; so much more than human verbalization can express.
Our will is to do Hashem’s Will, and that is what we can do every day, in every situation. Please let me one day serve You by building a bayis neeman b’Yisrael. Thank You Hashem for letting me serve You.
Since you mention that you have electricity as well as education, use your electricity to boot up your computer, and your education to utilize your computer to go onto a Jewish dating site such as Frumster or/& Orthodate, and find your predestined mate on the web site.
HaShem who rules the world as you stated, will also rule who happens to notice your profile on the computer, and whose profiles you notice & touch base with, so you do your Hishtadlus by getting on the computer today already, and haShem shall chart the course of events on the computer for you to meet your Bashert expeditiously.
147 – thanks for the suggestion. My impression is that the more socially adept boys don’t bother with it. However, I have joined these sites, as well as networking irl.
BTW I’m a younger single (well not compared to Rivka Imenu, but not able to join NASI either).