Siyum Hashas on eBay controversy….

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  • #1199536
    BenBagBag
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    What will you say if the auction does complete tomorrow?

    I would not know if it was legit, or if the “buyer” and seller will agree to back out, with no negative consequences for trying to get someone to outbid the “buyer”.

    Firstly, you said that it would not complete. So my question is what will you say if you end up being wrong.

    Secondly, as explained before allowing the auction to go through is a massive risk for a seller who might end up with a highest bidder who is genuine. Why would any rational person take such a risk? It would be both a big avla and a risk of losing $750.

    #1199537
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    Firstly, you said that it would not complete. So my question is what will you say if you end up being wrong.

    No, I didn’t. Apushatayid did. We are both skeptical about this, but for different reasons.

    I don’t think someone outbidding is a risk, I think it’s the desired outcome. The siyum will be made, and they’ll net about $8k.

    I just don’t know if the current bid is legit.

    #1199538
    BenBagBag
    Participant

    Firstly, eBay’s rules cannot amend or change any direct legal contractual agreements between two parties.

    That makes no sense. EBay’s rules precluded that contract from being effective.

    DaasYochid if you let me into your house only as long as I do not make legal agreements with anyone and while I am there I enter into a legal agreement with someone does that make that legal agreement invalid? Only the law can affect the validity of contracts made between two parties, no matter what platform was used, legitimately or illegitimately.

    #1199539
    zahavasdad
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    You can add rules to the eBay rules, but you cannot make a rule against their rules

    Secondly, where does eBay address whether an auction for a religious observance has to be open to all parties?

    If a non-jew would win the auction, and they dont want it cancelled, the seller must either provide the goods or services or take the consequence (and that could mean being kicked off the site)

    What the seller should have done is make a Pre-approved bidder listing, That means someone has to contact the seller to get eligible to bid, The seller could just ask the persons name and location and then when Christine O’Connor applies, He could just say she isnt eligible without giving a reason)

    #1199540
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    DaasYochid if you let me into your house only as long as I do not make legal agreements with anyone and while I am there I enter into a legal agreement with someone does that make that legal agreement invalid? Only the law can affect the validity of contracts made between two parties, no matter what platform was used, legitimately or illegitimately.

    Poor analogy. By listing on eBay, you have entered into a contract to follow their rules for this transaction, not for some side transaction off of the site.

    #1199541
    BenBagBag
    Participant

    Firstly, you said that it would not complete. So my question is what will you say if you end up being wrong.

    No, I didn’t. Apushatayid did. We are both skeptical about this, but for different reasons.

    I don’t think someone outbidding is a risk, I think it’s the desired outcome. The siyum will be made, and they’ll net about $8k.

    I just don’t know if the current bid is legit.

    You are right that you didn’t say that DaasYochid. You responded to my comment to aposhutayid and I didn’t realize. Yes, unlike aposhutayid who suggested that it’s all bogus you believe that it’s a genuine auction and are only skeptical on the bid.

    While there’s no way to know with certainty from the outside whether any bid is genuine, the risk for the seller is very real. He could lose a buyer who might have taken it at the minimum bid – thinking he has a good deal getting it at opening bid but who would have no interest at all into getting into a bidding war.

    I personally would not go that route if this were my auction – to me that’s being an oiber-chochom.

    #1199542
    BenBagBag
    Participant

    I think what is being overlooked by both ZD and DY is that eBay always intervenes in situations in which sellers wish to cancel for reasons that were never specified in the auction description.

    Obvious examples are the seller gets nervous because he realizes the buyer is a new user with 0 feedback and has a history of nothing but trouble with such users. Further examples include where he does not like something about the buyer’s profile. However all of that is because there was nothing in the auction that specified those terms.

    However:

    1) It’s basic Contract Law that a seller is legally entitled to create Terms and Conditions for his auction. Buyers who do not comply with those Terms and Conditions cannot then complain to eBay when they voluntarily entered into a legal contract under those Terms and Conditions.

    2) eBay does not in any way claim that sellers cannot create Terms and Conditions

    3) eBay does not attempt in any way to override auction Terms or Conditions.

    4) It is basic Contract Law that eBay has no right whatsoever to override any Contract between two parties. What eBay will do if they feel that the Terms and Conditions are not appropriate and the auction has not yet concluded is to cancel it.

    5) eBay can only make a contract with each party separately for terms of listing and if there is any breach they can take action against them but as above eBay will never protect a buyer who knowingly entered into a Contract with Terms and Conditions and then tries after the fact to breach those Terms and Conditions.

    #1199543
    zahavasdad
    Participant

    You can always make your own terms, However those terms cannot be against ebay rules

    for example you cannot say, I only accept cash (ebay rules only allow paypal for shipped items)

    And you cannot say JEWS ONLY, discrimnation is against ebay rules and the dispute resolution , eBay is very specific about dispute resolutions, you have to accept their eBay resolution service.

    BenBagBag,

    Do you actually sell on ebay, or are you just saying what you think the law is. ive been on ebay for some time , ive sold Millions of dollars on ebay. I know the rules, you have to know them otherwise they will kick you off

    #1199544
    BenBagBag
    Participant

    First off ZD, respect where it’s due. If you have sold millions of dollars on eBay you have a lot of practical experience that I do not. However, what’s key here is to have a clear understanding of terms.

    You can always make your own terms, However those terms cannot be against ebay rules

    for example you cannot say, I only accept cash (ebay rules only allow paypal for shipped items)

    The word cannot is true in the sense that as eBay write:

    Make sure your listing follows these guidelines. If it doesn’t, it may be removed, and you may be subject to a range of other actions, including limits of your buying and selling privileges and suspension of your account.

    So, your cash example is a very useful one. Contractually if an auction concludes with a commitment to pay Cash only then legally that’s binding. However, if the parties actually complete the transaction that way they are subject to eBay countermeasures as described.

    Obviously, your point about following rules is well made. Even if something’s legally binding as far as Contract law that won’t automatically protect the user from eBay sanctions for breaking policy. So, it’s clearly necessary to know eBay rules.

    And you cannot say JEWS ONLY, discrimnation is against ebay rules

    By the sound of it your experience is entirely with secular transactions and so you automatically assume that any differentiation would be discriminatory.

    You have never for example sold the bentsching for the Daf Hayomi siyum Hashas at Atime’s Shas-a-thon (auctioned off on ebay). Refusing that to a non-Jew is not discrimination at all, even though it was not mentioned in any Terms and Conditions – it’s obviously a religious observance and obviously governed by religious rules that’s basic common sense and it’s the law too.

    Dispute resolution , eBay is very specific about dispute resolutions, you have to accept their eBay resolution service.

    Ebay’s dispute resolution has an option of professional arbitration. Professional arbitrators honor civil law which requires honoring all legally binding Contractual Terms. When those terms include arbitration clauses the professional arbitrator will honor them as will all Civil Courts by ruling that the parties to the contract have to get arbitration per their contract – in this case with a Beis Din.

    #1199545
    zahavasdad
    Participant

    You can sell A Siyum OFF EBAY and make any terms you want, If you own a Judaica Store on 13th Ave, but when you sell on their platform you have to obey their rules, it is a secular platform, so you have to follow secular rules. They do not have to let you sell on their site if they dont want you too.

    I know people who got kicked off for various reasons and tried to sue and they were not able to win

    #1199546
    iacisrmma
    Participant

    BBB: I generally do not use eBay and I wondering if the bidding ad for the “bentching at the shas-a-thon” states that it may only be bid on by jews? Declining a bid is different then outright excluding groups of people (even if the item up for auction does not apply to them).

    #1199547
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    I personally would not go that route if this were my auction – to me that’s being an oiber-chochom.

    I wouldn’t because it’s not erlich, but if there are zero bids, it looks line a joke; showing a bid makes it look more real.

    #1199548
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    I think what is being overlooked by both ZD and DY is that eBay always intervenes in situations in which sellers wish to cancel for reasons that were never specified in the auction description.

    I’m referring to a fake buyer cancelling, not the seller cancelling.

    #1199549
    BenBagBag
    Participant

    it is a secular platform, so you have to follow secular rules.

    eBay’s policies on discrimination in selling practices (as opposed to selling offensive items or publishing offensive comments which are legal but against eBay policies) are entirely based on Secular law and not any specific eBay policy.

    Under secular law a florist cannot decide what type of wedding to sell flowers to even if it’s an religious florist and an “alternative” wedding that goes against the florist’s religious beliefs.

    However under the same secular law a Rabbi, Priest or Minister can refuse to perform such marriages.

    The point ZD is that secular law on religious observances is very different than secular law on non-religious transactions.

    So, if you are selling Judaica and you specify Jews only, despite the Jewish content it’s not a religious observance, so that’s illegal under secular law and that’s why eBay won’t allow it. However, if you are selling benching or maftir Yonah that’s a religious observance and it’s perfectly legal under secular law to restrict it to those who belong to the religion and your experience with transactions that are not religious observances is not representative here.

    #1199550
    apushatayid
    Participant

    I’ll believe it when I see pictures of the Mesayim, his father and the winning bidder in the photos section of YWN.

    #1199551
    apushatayid
    Participant

    IF. I don’t believe it will.

    #1199552
    BenBagBag
    Participant

    BBB: I generally do not use eBay and I wondering if the bidding ad for the “bentching at the shas-a-thon” states that it may only be bid on by jews? Declining a bid is different then outright excluding groups of people (even if the item up for auction does not apply to them).

    Religion by definition only applies to its members and limiting religious observances to its members is not discriminatory in any way, it’s normal, accepted, fully legal under Secular law, an everyday part of American life and protected by the Constitution.

    #1199553
    BenBagBag
    Participant

    I’ll believe it when I see pictures of the Mesayim, his father and the winning bidder in the photos section of YWN.

    No-one is going to change your mind if it’s already been made up. First you said that it would not complete, now you say that if it does you will need to see photos. The bottom line for you seems to be whatever it takes to insist that the whole thing is fake.

    But you seem to have forgotten that you originally said the sale would not take place to explain how the seller could afford taking on the risk of a genuine buyer – so you said the seller would end the auction early.

    That’s why I asked you what you’ll say if the auction does complete. You haven’t given any answer to that.

    #1199554
    BenBagBag
    Participant

    if there are zero bids, it looks line a joke; showing a bid makes it look more real.

    There is only one poster on here that seems to believe that the whole thing is a joke, that poster thinks that the bid is fake too. Which I believe suggests why it makes sense to focus on those who will not think it’s a joke and not lose them at the expense of people who won’t believe no matter what happens.

    #1199555
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    I didn’t mean an intentional joke.

    #1199556
    BenBagBag
    Participant

    I’m referring to a fake buyer cancelling, not the seller cancelling.

    True, DY, you clarified earlier that you were only skeptical about the genuineness of the bidder not of the seller and so I hear you.

    #1199557
    BenBagBag
    Participant

    I didn’t mean an intentional joke.

    I hear, you meant a lack of credibility that a fake bid might help overcome.

    Listen, I do agree with your comment earlier about fake bids being not ehrlich – and I personally believe it’s also ossur al pi Choshen Mishpot because of hilchos ono’oh – but because the seller is an unknown commodity and we are discussing all sorts of possibilities from his being a practical joker to a faker, I believe that it’s also important to discuss the business angle. On that my personal take as you know is that oiber chochmos are not kedai. Who knows how the seller sees it?

    #1199558
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    Some over chochmos are kedai from a business standpoint.

    Why would it be ono’oh? There’s no definable market value here, even if a bid would seem to represent that there is. It might be g’neivas da’as.

    I happen to agree with apushatayid that if this does complete, we should be seeing a YWN article.

    #1199559
    BenBagBag
    Participant

    Why would it be ono’oh? There’s no definable market value here, even if a bid would seem to represent that there is. It might be g’neivas da’as.

    You’re correct about it being geneivas da’as and not onaah.

    As far as the YWN article and a possible photo op I imagine that would depend on how much publicity/anonymity the potential winner and seller are interested in.

    #1199560
    iacisrmma
    Participant

    BBB: Thanks for wrapping yourself in the flag but you did not answer my question. Did the bid for bentching at the shas-a-thon state the same limitation? If not then you have no reason to compare it to this siyum hashas siyum bid.

    Where is CTLAWYER when we need him?

    #1199561
    apushatayid
    Participant

    So, what is the result of the bidding? More importantly, when is he going to finish shas?

    #1199562
    apushatayid
    Participant

    If someone didnt want publicity, they wouldnt put it up on ebay where it is sure to be talked about.

    #1199563
    zahavasdad
    Participant

    There was one bid of $9700

    #1199564
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    So, what is the result of the bidding?

    “Sorry you missed out on this item”

    #1199566
    apushatayid
    Participant

    If the mythical son will finish shas, at least he is a winner.

    #1199567
    holy brother
    Participant

    Listen Up! You will not believe this! The link to the auction was posted on a group chat, someones little brother took his phone and hit the bid button! The seller is not allowing him to cancel! He is threatening a din torah, claiming he’s a seasoned toyen (lawyer) and will get his money, and if not go to court! Furthermore he has contacted this person’s family members harassing them!

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