What should you tell the shadchan?

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    rebshidduch
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    What should you tell the shadchan if you do not want to tell them who you got their name from?

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    Lilmod Ulelamaid
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    Say that you heard about them from someone. If they ask you “From who?”, tell them that you’d rather not say.

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    Lightbrite
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    Maybe can also say that you don’t know or remember and then change the subject, and pray beforehand

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    Lilmod Ulelamaid
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    LB – I was thinking of writing that suggestion as well, but I was concerned that it could make it sound like she is spacy. But if she changes the conversation right away, she may be able to pull it off. Whichever response she chooses, changing the conversation right away is a good idea.

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