Why a Bigger Yarmulka is a Better Yarmulka

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    Joseph
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    Because you’ll be more conspicuously Jewish.

    #1341429
    Chortkov
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    Goodness, Joseph, you do ask for trouble.

    So – you’ll probably agree that a huge green and purple knitted Yarmulka is better than a velvet black one, right?

    #1341431
    TheGoq
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    What’s under the yarmulke and whats in the heart is more important than the size of the covering.

    #1341432
    mw13
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    If being conspicuously Jewish is your goal in Yarmulke selection, wouldn’t a colorful Yarmulke stick out more than a black one?

    #1341462
    iacisrmma
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    I prefer a bigger kippah to cover the bald spot.

    #1341480
    DaMoshe
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    I remember R’ Bender speaking about Jewish levush. He said it’s like one sign of a kosher animal – the split hooves. It’s the external sign of being a Jew. An animal needs both signs, internal and external, to be kosher. We have a term for having only the external sign – pig feet, or in Yiddish, chazzer fissel (did I get that right?). If you have only the dress, but don’t live the Torah way, it’s worthless. I still can hear his voice in my head – “LOOK AT ME!!! I’M KOSHER!!! With the black hat, and the white shirt and black jacket – you’re like the pig showing that he thinks he’s kosher! Without the inside, you’re nothing!”
    Joseph, you can wear the biggest kippah, but when you’re rotten inside, you’re like a pig showing off its hooves.

    #1341492
    gavriel613
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    A bigger cappel is hiddur mitzva, like a bigger esrog. The point is to remind you about Hashem, so the bigger it is the more it reminds you, hence it is a hiddur.
    If it looks nice its Zeh Keili ve’Anveihu. Probably a black velvet one is better i this respect than “a huge green and purple knitted” one.
    But of course the most important thing is that it should have a rim. Joseph didn’t ask about the importance of the rim because its so blindingly obvious.

    #1341598
    👑RebYidd23
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    Should we assume other things equal? Because larger kippas tend to be the knitted ones.

    #1341669
    yudel
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    Reb Yaakov Kamenetsky, Z”L responded to a bochur in Torah Vodaas when asked can I wear a yarmulke the size of a soda cap?, if not why not?

    Rev Yaakov responded, the yarmulke covers the “saichel”, each one decides how much saichel they have.

    Yudel

    #1341716
    takahmamash
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    Troll – as usual.

    #1341739
    👑RebYidd23
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    If bigger is better, does that count even if the size of the yarmulke is larger than the wearer’s head?

    #1341748
    DovidBT
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    But where do you get big yarmulkas?

    I currently wear a size 8. I ordered two size 9 from an online judaica store, but they turned out to be size 7, falsely advertised as size 9. When I complained to the store, instead of letting me return them for a refund, they responded that “buying kippas is ‘tricky'”. I would post the name of the store, but I suppose that would be lashon hara.

    I’m thinking of either getting some kippas custom made by a tailor, or figuring out to make some myself.

    #1341829
    iacisrmma
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    DovidBT: Is the size 8 too small for you? I prefer to wear a size 8 and it fits my head comfortably . I have noticed that sizing is different depending on the manufacturer.

    #1342540
    DovidBT
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    iacisrmma: My size 8 kippa doesn’t stay in place very well, and I prefer not to use clips. I thought that a larger one might work better. And I would be more conspicuously Jewish.

    #1342602
    Lubavitcher
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    Bigger Kappel Mor e yires shamayim

    #1345389
    DovidBT
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    “Bigger Kappel Mor e yires shamayim”

    That goes along with being more conspicuously Jewish.

    As Rabbi Yochanan ben Zakkai said to his disciples, “May it be [G-d’s] will that the fear of heaven shall be upon you like the fear of flesh and blood.”
    Berachos 28b

    #1345396
    👑RebYidd23
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    If you want to be more conspicuously Jewish, there are other ways to do that. An overly large kippah is not the the best way.

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