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  1. YW Moderator-72
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    So we don't miss a day, and I do not have time to write a D'Var Torah... so here is a D'Var Torah from Rabbi Yisroel Miller (from his sefer "A Gift For Yom Tov"

    Haste Makes ... Pesach

    Most Jews who have had even minimal Torah education can answer the question, “Why do we eat matzah on Pesach?” But relatively few know the precise answer that is given in the Torah itself. In Parshas Re’eh (Deuteronomy 16:3): “Do not eat with it (the Pesach lamb) any chametz. Seven days you will eat matzos, the bread of affliction, because you left Egypt in haste; in order that you will remember the day of your leaving the land of Egypt all the days of your life.”

    Note that matzah does not commemorate only liberation -- liberation is not even mentioned here -- but it is to recall the haste, the rush in which we left.

    What was the rush? Rashi’s commentary explains: “The haste was not yours, but Egypt’s, as it says, ‘And Egypt pressed the people, to hasten to send them out’” (Exodus 12:33). The Egyptians pressed us to leave before they all died from the plague.

    This is something new, or at least something most of us have never thought about, which is the same thing. The Torah is saying that the essential point of matzah, more than freedom, and more than miracles, is that it is to remember Egypt’s haste. And this is something to remember “all the days of your life.” Why is this haste the most important thing to remember?

    In the Friday night Kiddush, we proclaim that Shabbos is zecher liyetzias Mitzraim, Shabbos is a remembrance of the Exodus from Egypt. How is Shabbos connected with the Exodus?

    Shabbos is the reminder that the world has a Creator. But it is theoretically possible for someone to believe in a Creator Who made the universe, and then ceased to concern Himself with it. Perhaps the Almighty wound up the cosmic clock and then retired to Florida; just as most people today believe in G-d, but the G-d they believe in this not very much a part of their daily lives. (Author’s note to readers under the age of 30: In your grandparents’ day clocks were wound by hand, hence the expression, “wound up the cosmic clock.”)

    The Exodus teaches us: The Creator of the Universe is also the Controller of the Universe. The Master of all takes an interest in all; and, as the Exodus demonstrates, He even makes miracles, that’s how much He cares and guides our lives. Pesach gives life to Shabbos, because the Exodus shows that the Creator is still involved, pulling the strings from above the stage so that His Will be done.

    However, the question now becomes: Granted that we need Pesach to testify that the Creator of the Shabbos is still actively involved, but once we have Pesach, why do we need the Shabbos? Once the Exodus from Egypt demonstrates that Hashem is in complete control, why require a weekly reminder that He is also the Creator? The first of the Ten Commandments is “I am Hashem your G-d Who took you out of the land of Egypt.” Once we recognize the G-d of the Ten Plagues and the splitting of the Red Sea, Hashem who controls everything, what is the importance of the Fourth Commandment reminding us that He also made everything?

    Every year on Pesach, usually on Shabbos Chol HaMoed, we read Shir HaShirim, the Song of Solomon or Song of Songs, an allegorical poem depicting the love between Hashem and the people of Israel. The plain meaning of the verses, the allegorical “plot,” tells of a king who fell in love with a shepherd girl. As an absolute monarch, he had the power to make her his bride by force. Even so, he did not have the power to compel her to change her attitude to love him. Some things are beyond the power of even the mightiest kings.

    Without going into the deeper meaning of Shir HaShirim, we can come to see that this limit on the king’s power is a serious misperception we have in our relationship with the King of Kings. If a loyal Jew with firm emunah (faith) has a serious problem, he is likely to think: “Yes, Hashem can help, but he cannot make my wife love me.” Or a Jew seeking employment says, “Yes, of course Hashem can help me find a job -- but there are no jobs to be found.” Or, “I do have faith that Hashem could help me meet a marriage partner, if I lived in Jerusalem or Brooklyn. But since I am stuck here in Yehupitzville, even Hashem does not make something out of nothing!”

    But that attitude is selling Hashem short. Pesach teaches us that Hashem actively controls. Once we know that He controls, then Shabbos tells us: If the necessary raw materials are absent, He creates. Hashem not only directs the flow, but He makes the flow; and if all solutions to your problem are unworkable, He can make a new solution out of nothing.

    Perhaps the most open miracle of this generation was the implosion of the Soviet empire in the late 1980s and early 1990s; and what makes this miracle so open is that absolutely no one dreamed of it. Communism was triumphant, winning one country after another. Freedom in Eastern Europe, emigration for Soviet Jews, or yeshivos in Moscow and Kiev? Laughably impossible. But “He Who sits in Heaven laughs” (Psalms 2:4) the last laugh, and at a word from Hashem, the world turned upside down.

    You may have read about the Jewish young man from New York who went to study in a Buddhist monastery in Thailand, surely lost to us forever. But in the monastery, the monk in charge turned out to be another Jewish young man from New York, and he told this young man he should go to learn in a yeshivah, and he did! Hashem’s reach is infinite. And on Pesach we eat matzah to recall not only that He liberated us, but to recall how the same Pharaoh who had said, “Never,” Pharaoh who had warned Moshe, “Do not come to see me again,” it was that same Pharaoh who ended up running through the streets yelling, “Where is Moshe? Moshe, Aharon, leave, go, just as you said, and bless be me too.”

    Matzah symbolizes chipazon, haste, such haste that we had no time to bake a loaf of bread. Chipazon shel mi, Whose haste? Shel Mitzraim, That of the Egyptians, the ones who swore they would not let us go; it was they who hastened to comply with the word of Hashem. Hashem, the Creator and the Controller, not only freed us, but He transformed the Egyptian will.

    And the Torah commands us to remember this all the days of our lives; to know that Hashem, Who can create a whole new attitude in Pharaoh to make him ask us for a blessing, He can surely change the attitudes of our employers and neighbors and relatives, and whatever other situation we think is beyond repair.

    In Eretz Yisrael, for many years there have been Gedolei Torah, outstanding Torah leaders, who have taken public positions on important religious and political issues of the day. But surprisingly, some of the most outspoken rabbis, who never hesitated to speak their minds, never articulated (at least not publicly) a position on what Israel should do concerning its problems with its Arab neighbors.

    I once heard a suggestion that perhaps these Sages themselves do not know what to do, because there is no alternative that makes good sense. Some problems simply have no solutions. But at the same time, the Sages know that where no solution exists, Hashem can always create a new one; and if we seek to do His Will, He will show us that He is not bound by the restrictions of realpolitik.

    We must surely do everything we can to deal with problems, as best we know how. But we must always keep in mind that Hashem has His own methods, and He can transform enemies into friends; swords into plowshares; and Jews into holy people, people who live with the memory of the miracles of the liberation from Egypt, kol yemei chayecha, each day, all the days, of your lives.

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  2. Jax
    Member

    mod72: nice piece!

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  3. Jax
    Member

    D'VAR TORAH: PESACH:
    “This is the decree of the Korban Pesach; no ben neichar(gentile) shall eat of it, …no uncircumcised male may eat of it.” (Exodus 12:43,48)

    Every year, the korban pesach was brought in the Bais Hamikdash; just as it was that very first Pesach when the Jews actually left Mitzrayim; and was distributed to be eaten by Benei Yisroel. The korban pesach was not to be served to a non-jew.

    Rabbi Yehuda ben Besaira had a neighbor who was not Jewish. One day the neighbor boasted to him, “It is written in your Torah that no gentile or uncircumcised male shall eat from the korban pesach; yet, I go every year to the Temple in Jerusalem, pretending to be a Jew and I eat of the very best of the Pascal lamb.

    This was a terrible situation which could not be allowed to continue, yet how could the Rabbi stop him if he insisted on playing this charade.

    Rabbi Yehuda ben Besaira was not flapped by this. Without missing a beat, he asked the neighbor, “Have they given you the fatty tail?”

    The neighbor replied in the negative. Rabbi Yehuda said in a friendly way, “You are missing the best part. Next time you are there be sure to ask for it.”

    The neighbor thought to himself, “I can’t believe that all this time, those Jews have been holding out on me. I will show them. I will demand the fatty tail.”

    When it was time for the meat of the Korbon Pesach to be given out, the imposter got on line as usual – everyone there was unaware of his deception. After receiving his portion he asked to be given the fatty tail.

    They were stunned by the request, “What did you ask for?”

    “You heard me, I want he fatty tail. I know that’s the best part and you’ve been trying to hold out on me. Well it won’t work. Don’t even think about trying to fool me anymore. I’m too smart for you.”

    “Who told you that we should give you the fatty tail?”

    “Why my dear old neighbor Rabbi Yehuda ben Besaira.”

    The sages were confused by this request. How could the great Rabbi Yehuda ben Besaira tell anyone to request the fatty tail? Any Rabbi worth his snuff knows that the fatty tail is burned completely on the mizbayach and is not eaten by anyone at all – certainly the great Rabbi Yehuda ben Besaira knew that. It was strange indeed. It must be that Rabbi Yehuda ben Besaira was trying to send them some sort of message here.

    They did some investigating and discovered that the “Jewish” neighbor was indeed only pretending to be a Jew when he actually wasn’t. The non-jew was busted for this, and the travesty finally ended.

    The clever Rabbi, with his quick thinking managed to catch a crook from thousands of miles away, and save the day. The sages sent him a note saying, “Rabbi Yehuda ben Besaira, you live in Netzivin, yet your net is spread out over Jerusalem.”

    (sorry it was a little long, but i kinda liked it!)
    A Gutten Mo'ed!

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  4. Jax
    Member

    72: you read?

    Yes, and I liked it. very good. sorry if I do not respond after wach D'Var Torah. YW Moderator-72

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  5. Jax
    Member

    72: not problem, just trying to keep this thread alive!

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  6. JayMatt19
    Member

    Wishing everyone a gut yom tov,

    Please remove me from all days, I will only be able to do sporadically for the time being.

    This comes from the Gedolei Yisroel in the name of the Ba'al Yismach Moshe

    Why do we sing l'shana haba specifically after Yom Kippor and during the seder, exclusively?

    There is a famous machlokes in the gemarra (Rosh HaShana) when will the redemption take place? R' Elazar says in Tishrei, and R' Yehoshua says Nissan.

    Rabbenu Tam says that no machlokes is actually taking place. The Yidden's private geula will take place in Nissan and the general international geula will occur in Tishrei.

    Therefore its specifically after Neila and during the seder where we sing l'shana Haba B'Yerushalayim

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  7. kapusta
    CR Queen - “Best of luck. Avoid roasted cabbage, don’t eat earwax, and look on the bright side of life!”

    Sorry it's long, it was the first one I was able to find that was online and wasn't too complicated or deep.

    L'iluy nishmas R' Meir ben R' Yehoshua on his yartzeit.

    ספר ויקרא פרק יב

    ב) דבר אל בני ישראל לאמר אשה כי תזריע וילדה זכר וטמאה שבעת ימים כימי נדת דותה תטמא:

    ג) וביום השמיני ימול בשר ערלתו:

    3) And on the eighth day you shall circumcise the flesh of the Arlah

    ספר החינוך - מצוה ב

    משרשי מצוה זו, לפי שרצה השם יתברך לקבוע בעם אשר הבדיל להיות נקרא על שמו אות קבוע בגופם, להבדילם משאר העמים בצורת גופם כמו שהם מובדלים מהם בצורת נפשותם,

    , ורצה להיות ההשלמה על ידי האדם, ולא בראו שלם מבטן, לרמוז אליו כי כאשר תשלום צורת גופו על ידו, כן בידו להשלים צורת נפשו בהכשר פעולותיו:
    Sefer Ha’Chinuch– Mitzvah of Milah

    The root of this mitzvah is because HASHEM wanted to permanently place in this nation a sign in their body that would separate them and show them that they belong to HASHEM. Just as their body is distinct from the other nations, so too, is their soul.

    HASHEM wanted this completion of the person to be done by a man, and that he not be born that way. This is a sign that just like the body can be perfected by man, so too he is able to perfect his soul.

    The Jew has a distinct role amongst the nations

    The Sefer HaChinuch explains that HASHEM separated the Jewish people from all the nations. We were given a distinct role in this world. Our lives and everything we do should be different than any other people.

    To remind us of this, HASHEM gave us a sign, a permanent reminder of our uniqueness – the Mitzvah of Milah. A change in our bodies shows that just as the body of the Jew is different than that of a Gentile, so too is our soul.

    By all rights, the Jewish baby should have been born already circumcised, as this would have more clearly shown that the Jew is unique amongst the peoples. However, there is a second lesson that HASHEM wanted to impart to us. Just like a person can take his body and permanently change it, so too, a person can change his very essence – his Nishoma. Therefore, rather than creating the Jew circumcised at birth, HASHEM gave us this Mitzvah to perform.
    Question on the Sefer HaChinuch

    If HASHEM wanted us to know that we are a nation apart from any other nation, wouldn’t that difference have been more clearly shown had the very genetic material of the Jewish person been different? The Chinese are clearly distinct from the Occidental. The skin colors of various peoples show them as distinct races. Had the Jew been born circumcised, the entire world would have known that this people is set apart. Throughout the millennium, every person would have clearly seen that the Jews are unique. From birth they were different, so their very essence is different. Yet that difference has now been lost. Any human can circumcise himself; in fact, many do. Wouldn’t it have been a far more powerful lesson for us as a nation to know that we are different because we were born that way?
    A leopard can’t change its spots

    The answer to this question is based on one of the greatest shortcomings of man – self-limiting beliefs. Often, a person will find himself thinking, “I am what I am. This is my nature, and there is nothing that I can do about it. Granted, I may not be happy with the way that I act, granted I may wish that I were different, but what can I do? This is who I am.”

    Such thoughts become self-fulfilling. If I sincerely believe I can’t change, then in fact I will not be able to. I won’t seek out the methods of change, I won’t have the motivation necessary to change, and the reality will be that I cannot change. This single concept can be the most damaging idea that ever crosses a person’s mind.

    We were created to change

    The Gra writes, “If not for changing one’s character traits, what is the purpose of life?”

    Change isn’t part of the Torah - it is the focal point of all of our Avodas Hashem. The reason we were put on this planet is to grow. All of the Mitzvahs and beliefs focus on growth. But growth means taking who I am now and changing it. Taking myself from where I am, and willfully, purposefully changing me. Whether it is in character traits, beliefs, trust, or honesty – whether it is in more clearly seeing HASHEM or treating people with greater respect – every part of what the Torah demands of me is about change.

    If a person were locked into the idea that he cannot change, then in fact he wouldn’t be able to. To such a person, the Torah has no relevance.

    The answer to the question on the Sefer HaChinuch seems to be that this concept of man’s ability to change is so central to being Jewish that it warranted giving up another essential lesson. It is true that had Jews been born circumcised, it would have taught us that just as our body is different, so too is our soul[KH3] . That concept would have aided us in recognizing our mission in creation. However, the concept that “I can change the essence of who I am” is far more central to being a practicing Jew, and therefore came at the expense of the weakening the first lesson.
    The purpose of life is to change

    This idea has great relevance to everything that we do. We often find ourselves mired in thoughts that limit our ability to grow. “That’s just the way I am. What can I do? I didn’t choose to be born stubborn, or hot tempered, or selfish or arrogant. Ask my Creator why He made me this way.”

    While it is true, that each individual was created with a different nature and temperament, and it may well be that one person has a greater tendency towards anger, jealousy, or arrogance- the entire focus of our lives is supposed to be towards changing our natures. However, to do that, we must clearly see change as possible, as something within our capacity. For that reason, HASHEM gave us the Mitzvah of Milah to perform so that we can have a permanent reminder of our ability to change.

    taken from theshmuz.com

    *kapusta*

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  8. Jax
    Member

    *****D'Var Torah - Parshas Shmini*****

    The Torah lists kosher and nonkosher birds. One of the nonkosher birds is the chasidah. The chasidah is so named because it does great chesed for its young. If it is known for doing great kindness, why is it not kosher? The commentaries explain that although it does kindness for its own, it does not do so for others. Kindness that is done only for your own is not true kindness. True kindness extends beyond your own family, beyond your own circle of friends, beyond your clique or niche - true kindness extends lovingly, selflessly, and indiscriminately to all. The following story shows this:

    [Told by a young man named Brian] One day, when I was a freshman in high school, I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school. His name was Kyle. It looked like he was carrying all of his books. I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday? He must really be a nerd." I had quite a fun weekend planned so I shrugged my shoulders and went on. As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him. They knocked all his books out of his arms and tripped him so he landed in the dirt. His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him. He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes.

    My heart went out to him. So, I ran over to him. As he crawled around looking for his glasses, I saw a tear in his eye. Handing him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks. They really should get lives." He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!" There was a big smile on his face. It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.

    I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived. As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before. He said he had gone to a private school before now. I would have never hung out with a private school kid before. We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books. He turned out to be a pretty cool kid. I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends. He said yes. We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.

    Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again. I stopped him and said, "Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!" He just laughed and handed me half the books. Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends.

    Kyle was valedictorian of our class. I teased him all the time about being a nerd. He had to prepare a speech for graduation. I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak. Graduation day, I saw Kyle. He looked great. I could see that he was nervous about his speech. So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be great!" He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled. "Thanks," he said.

    As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began. "Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years. Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends. I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them. I am going to tell you a story."

    I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we met. He had planned to kill himself over the weekend. He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home. He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile. "Thankfully, I was saved. My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable."

    I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment. I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile. Not until that moment did I realize it's depth.

    You never know how one small gesture can change a person's life.

    a gutten shobbos!

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  9. JayMatt19
    Member

    I'd like to wish everyone a Great Shabbos.

    Posting here the next few weeks will be difficult for me. As such, I have e-mailed numerous divrei torah to Moderator-72, so that he can post them when he sees fit. Iy'h when I get a chance, I'll e-mail some more.

    72, CHECK YOUR E-MAIL!!

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  10. chofetzchaim
    Member

    Mussar HaTorah

    Torah Insights into Human Nature – Dedicated in memory of Rabbi A. Henach Leibowitz zt"l

    24 Nisan, 5769 Vol. 10, No. 25 Parashas Shemini

    This issue of Mussar HaTorah is reprinted with permission from Pinnacle of Creation, an Artscroll–Mesorah publication.
    All rights reserved. For more information call (818) 505-7999 or visit http://www.torahstation.com

    “And Moshe listened, and it was good in his eyes.”
    (Vayikra 10:20)

    Aharon had just suffered the tragic loss of his sons Nadav and Avihu, and was therefore an onen – one who has just lost a close relative – who is disqualified from eating of the sacrificial offerings. Hashem told Moshe that in spite of Aharon’s status, he should still eat from those korbanos that were one time offerings for the Mishkan’s consecration. Moshe mistakenly extended this command to include all offerings and instructed Aharon accordingly. Aharon correctly did not eat from the regular sacrifices and when Moshe chastised him for not following instructions, Aharon replied, “If you heard from Hashem regarding one time offerings, that does not allow you to permit all the offerings!” The Torah records Moshe’s reaction to Aharon’s rebuke: “Moshe listened and it was good in his eyes.” Rashi explains that Moshe admitted his error, and was not embarrassed to concede that, indeed, he had not heard Hashem permit them.

    The Sefer HaZikaron, a commentary on Rashi, teaches us that there are three types of reactions in a dispute: One, a person who does not admit he is wrong at all and knowingly denies the truth; two, a person who admits his error, albeit begrudgingly, with embarrassment, like one forced to act against his will; three, a person who acknowledges his mistake with a smiling face and without any embarrassment, delighted in the victory his friend has won over him, because through this defeat he has gained another piece of truth that he previously lacked. This, concludes the Sefer HaZikaron, was Moshe’s reaction. He was not upset or reluctant about Aharon’s disproving him, but instead elated.

    How could Moshe have been jubilant about his defeat in this exchange with Aharon? Even though he had learned a new truth, he still was defeated. Surely it was painful to be proven wrong! Wouldn’t Moshe have preferred to gain this knowledge without suffering the shame of defeat? Besides, how much joy could Moshe, the father of wisdom and receiver of the entire Torah from Hashem at Sinai, derive from learning one new law?

    Someone who trips and falls, hurting himself on the hard pavement, and finds a fifty dollar bill on the ground, is certainly happy about finding the money. But he’s still smarting from the pain of his fall, and wishes he could have found the money without the agony of his throbbing leg. If, however, he falls and finds this week’s winning ticket to a ten million dollar jackpot, he jumps for joy and doesn’t feel any pain, happy that he fell because it has brought him fantastic riches. Moshe loved truth and Torah more than others love money, and he was ecstatic at the acquisition of one more halacha, even though he already knew so much. Since his joy was so overwhelming, there was no shame; no pain in losing the dialogue with Aharon – it was insignificant in the boundless sea of joy he now felt. In this light, the loss of the debate became a simcha for him.

    Let us ask ourselves: How do we react when someone corrects us? Which category defines us: Do we reject any attempt to disagree with our ideas, or do we accept the truth when faced with it? When we do admit our mistakes, are we thankful and happy at our newfound riches, or begrudging and bitter about being proven wrong? If we love Torah, wisdom and truth as Moshe did, we will respond with joy, delighted by this precious gem of truth, the only true and eternal wealth.

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  11. Jax
    Member

    kapusta: the neshama should have an aliya! nice vort!
    chofetz chaim: very nice!

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  12. JayMatt19
    Member

    Quick Vort from Memory:

    In Parshas Noach the torah says: מכל הבהמה הטהורה, תקח-לך שבעה שבעה--איש ואשתו; ומן-הבהמה אשר לא טהרה

    We see that the Torah goes out of its way to use "clean language" choosing the term לא טהרה.

    Why then in this weeks Parsha does the Torah seemingly forget this lesson and chooses to refer to these same animals as טמא?

    R' Moshe Sternbuch says that there is a fundamental difference. When referring to the animals in general, one should use the nicest laguage. However, when discussing something which is forbidden (e.g. forbidden foods), one should not "water down" anything. One needs to recognize that this is טמא, and therefore we cannot eat it.

    We often fall into these traps, saying lashon hara when forbidden and playing the "lashon hara card" when there is an obligation to say the truth. May HaKadosh Baruch Hu assist us in navigating this difficult labyrinth successfully.

    Gut Voch to All

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  13. an open book
    Member

    thanks. that was nice, jaymatt19.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  14. YW Moderator-72
    Retired Moderator

    JayMatt19 - I saw my email and I was ready to post one when I saw that you already did. maybe tomorrow :o).

    Posted 6 years ago #
  15. Jax
    Member

    mod72: please put me on the board for Tuesday!

    Posted 6 years ago #
  16. YW Moderator-72
    Retired Moderator

    this is the first of five submissions via email from JayMatt19 while he may not have access to post.

    1. Chofetz Chaim:

    עֵינֵי כל אֵלֶיךָ יְשבֵּרוּ. וְאַתָּה נותֵן לָהֶם אֶת אָכְלָם בְּעִתּו

    Why is this discussed in second person אַתָּה, while other pessukim are in 3rd person (סומֵךְ ה' לְכָל הַנּפְלִים. וְזוקֵף לְכָל הַכְּפוּפִים:). The Chafetz Chaim states that this is done since Parnassa comes directly from HaKadosh Baruch Hu, not through a Malach (and not through our own doing). As the gemarra in ta'anis says that the key for rain (i.e. parnassa) does not get handed over). Therefore, the passuk about Parnassa is mentioned in the second person form, while other topics are in 3rd person form.

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  17. aussieboy
    Member

    mod72: WHat do you mean he may not have access to post?

    read the post from JayMatt19 (about 10 posts ago). YW Moderator-72

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  18. YW Moderator-72
    Retired Moderator

    this is the second of five submissions via email from JayMatt19 while he may not have access to post.
    2. The following is a Kotzker Vort

    Why is there Toomas Leida? What about the childbirth makes one ta'amei?

    Toomah is a result of a loss of closeness to Hashem. Whenever there is a loss of Kedusha, it is replaced by toomah. The classic example of this is Toomas Meis.

    Chazal teach us that the key for childbirth is possessed by Hashem, and is not handed over. Therefore, any pregnancy is accompanied by an added kedusha directly from Hashem, and it will obviously vanish during the childbirth, to be replaced with toomah.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  19. Jax
    Member

    jaymatt: another masterpiece!

    Posted 6 years ago #
  20. Jax
    Member

    *****D'Var Torah - Parshas Tazria/Metzora****
    lieyloi neshmas my Great Grandfather R' Yitzchak Meir ben R' Menacham Mendel, on his yartzeit today!

    The Torah prohibits the speaking of Lashon Hara. When we denigrate others, we not only cause them harm and loss, but we create a negative environment that affects the listener and even the speaker of the lashon hara. Attitudes affect and infect others, both consciously and subconsciously, as the following true story illustrates:

    A man and his elderly father once fell into a dispute. They were very poor and lived in a shack with no heating. They only had one coat and the father felt that he should get to wear it since he was a frail old man, stuck all day in a house with no heat. The son felt that he should get the coat since he had to work outdoors to support the family. His father who was being supported by him was at least indoors out of the wind.

    They couldn't settle their dispute so they went to the Rabbi to seek his decision. Each one told the Rabbi, his side of the story. The Rabbi asked them to each return in two days and he would render his decision.

    On the way home, the son started thinking to himself, "What am I doing? What sort of 'Honor thy Father' is this? How can I deny my own father this coat? He is sick and frail. I am healthy. If I get cold I can light a fire at the work site. He should get the coat."

    At the same time, the father started thinking to himself, "What am I doing? My son is working hard to support me? How can I let him do this and deny him the coat? If I get cold I can put on a sweater or a blanket or drink a glass of hot tea. He should get the coat."

    Each man now refused to wear the coat and insisted that the other wear one it. Neither could convince the other so they went back to the Rabbi to ask him to rule on their new dispute. The Rabbi thought for a moment and said, "I have a spare coat. Why don't I lend it to you and then you each can have a coat." Now everyone could be happy.

    The son then asked the Rabbi, "I do not mean to be disrespectful; rather, I am burning with curiosity. If you are going to offer your coat, why did you not offer it the first time we came here?"

    The Rabbi replied, "The first time you came, you each said 'I must have the coat' so without thinking, it made me feel 'I must have my coat.' The second time you came, you each said, 'I don't need the coat, I want the other one to have the coat,' so I felt 'I don't need the coat, I want the other one to have the coat.' (Heard from Rabbi Paysach Krohn)

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  21. YW Moderator-72
    Retired Moderator

    Jax, the neshama should have an aliya.

    and nice D'Var Torah

    Posted 6 years ago #
  22. kapusta
    CR Queen - “Best of luck. Avoid roasted cabbage, don’t eat earwax, and look on the bright side of life!”

    Jax, very nice, may the neshama have an aliyah!

    *kapusta*

    Posted 6 years ago #
  23. Jax
    Member

    72: Amen & thank you!
    kapusta: Amen & thanx!

    Posted 6 years ago #
  24. YW Moderator-72
    Retired Moderator

    this is the third of five submissions via email from JayMatt19 while he may not have access to post.

    3. Ksav Sofer:

    זאת תהיה תורת המצרע, ביום טהרתו: והובא, אל-הכהן

    The מצרע is already booted out of the camp, so what is the meaning of והובא, אל-הכהן (bringing him to the kohen)?

    It is known that whomever speaks Lashon Hara about someone else, the speaker loses all his mitzvos and Torah and it is given to the one he spoke about.

    This is a remez in the passuk. זאת תהיה תורת המצרע, this is what occurs to the Torah of the והובא, אל-הכהן, This Torah becomes a zechus to the Kohen, i.e. the tzaddik whom the lashon hara was spoken about.

    Why does the Torah use the term Kohen? Since most lashon hara is spoken about the true leaders, tzaddikim, Kohanim...

    Posted 6 years ago #
  25. what's wrong with JayMatt? "while he may not have access to post"??

    Posted 6 years ago #
  26. Jax
    Member

    areivim: he's in the same country as us now & not at home! adios pal!

    Posted 6 years ago #
  27. YW Moderator-72
    Retired Moderator

    areivimzehlazeh

    your turn to post a D'Var Torah. I will put you down for Tomorrow. thanks.

    chofetzchaim - I will put you down as tentative for e'Shabbos.

    going through the list of those who have not posted in some time (or never)

    anonymisss
    an open book
    aussieboy
    charlie brown
    curious
    feivel
    Joseph
    Just Smile
    kapusta
    mdlevine
    moish01
    yashrus20
    yros
    ... (everybody is eligible to submit, not just the selection that I listed).

    start thinking about which night next week you would like.

    Thanks

    Posted 6 years ago #
  28. kapusta
    CR Queen - “Best of luck. Avoid roasted cabbage, don’t eat earwax, and look on the bright side of life!”

    uh, 72, I posted way up on this page, I think it was motzei shabbos. how did I make it onto that list? does that mean you didnt read it? you wouldn't want to insult a queen, would you?

    *kapusta*

    ok, you're exempt until the week after next YW Moderator-72

    Posted 6 years ago #
  29. moish01
    Member

    try that in age order - elders first. and one a week. that gives me a nice long while (and aussie goes before me ;))

    Posted 6 years ago #
  30. anonymisss
    Member

    MOD72, Thanks for letting me off the hook!

    ~a~

    added - you are now on the top of the list

    Posted 6 years ago #
  31. kapusta
    CR Queen - “Best of luck. Avoid roasted cabbage, don’t eat earwax, and look on the bright side of life!”

    72, did you read it?

    *kapusta*

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  32. moish01
    Member

    72, anonymisss obviously wants to. otherwise she would never have opened her mouth.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  33. YW Moderator-72
    Retired Moderator

    just did.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  34. kapusta
    CR Queen - “Best of luck. Avoid roasted cabbage, don’t eat earwax, and look on the bright side of life!”

    72, if that just did was for me, did you at least like it? it took me a while to find that!

    *kapusta*

    Yes. the portion about the ability to change was right on target. very good.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  35. kapusta
    CR Queen - “Best of luck. Avoid roasted cabbage, don’t eat earwax, and look on the bright side of life!”

    anonymisss, go ahead! we're rooting for you!

    *kapusta*

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  36. kapusta
    CR Queen - “Best of luck. Avoid roasted cabbage, don’t eat earwax, and look on the bright side of life!”

    mod 72, danke!

    *kapusta*

    Posted 6 years ago #
  37. anonymisss
    Member

    For the sake of being different, here's one on תפילה, the bracha of אתה חונן לאדם דעת:

    l'iluy nishmans Yehoshua ben Moshe a"h.

    The word אדם is referring to a higher level of man which Hashem gives דעת to serve Him. Afterward, it uses the word אנוש. What is the difference between an אדם and an אנוש? The אדם is a higher caliber of human being. The אנוש is a person who has sadly compromised the purity, the beauty, and the magnificence of his נשמה because he momentarily lost sight of his incredible bigness and acted in a way that was beneath him, sullying the beauty of his נשמה.

    When saying the words ומלמד לאנוש בינה, we are asking that Hashem give us, who have sinned, the understanding to do תשובה. Hashem teaches the person who has sullied his perfection to want to come back and do תשובה. He will NEVER, EVER abandon us, saying, "Well, too bad on you. You did..... and that's it! I'm not taking you back!" NEVER! Hashem provides the אנוש with the בינה that he needs to be able to come back, at whatever level he's up to, so that he can reperfect his originally perfect נשמה.

    Any parent will tell you, that there is no greater pleasure than seeing their children love and care about each other and no greater anguish than seeing them at each others' throats. Hashem is no different with us, His children. In this request, there is an inyan to have in mind all Jews who don't know about Hashem, that they should somehow be touched or come to realize that there's an emptiness in their lives and be inspired to serve Hashem.

    Some people think better in broad terms of all unaffiliated Jews and some do better being more specific and having in mind those that they know. I'm afraid I can safely assume that there isn't a block in Brooklyn, Monsey, or Lakewood that doesn't have at least one child who isn't currently living at their parents' standards. By having in mind either all irreligious Jews or the children that you know who are currently not in a position to give Hashem nachas, you can be מקיים the מצוה of ואהבת לרעך כמוך.

    Doing this will give Hakadosh Baruch Hu a million times more pleasure from your תפילה because He knows that you love and care about His children. And in this זכות, we should be זוכה to see all of Hashem's precious children returned to Him, very soon!

    ~a~

    Posted 6 years ago #
  38. an open book
    Member

    moish: i second that!!!

    Posted 6 years ago #
  39. anonymisss
    Member

    mod-who-put-it-up, thanks!

    ~a~

    it was me, your friendly YW Moderator ##

    Posted 6 years ago #
  40. YW Moderator-72
    Retired Moderator

    this is the 4th of 5 submissions via email from JayMatt19 while he may not have access to post.

    4. Sefer Nishmas HaChaim, Eitz Yosef

    אֱ-להַי. נְשָׁמָה שֶׁנָּתַתָּ בִּי טְהורָה הִיא

    There are 7 different praises about the Nishama in this tefilla:

    טְהורָה הִיא - The Nishama itself it pure. As it says, Just as HaKadosh Baruch Hu is pure, so to the Nishama

    אַתָּה בְרָאתָהּ - The Nishama is from the Sheshes Yemei Bereishis

    אַתָּה יְצַרְתָּהּ - It is the tzelem Elokim

    אַתָּה נְפַחְתָּהּ בִּי - Back when I was a fetus in embrionic fluid, A neshama was injected into me

    וְאַתָּה מְשַׁמְּרָהּ בְּקִרְבִּי - When The Nishama leaves the body it needs heavenly guarding and protection.

    וְאַתָּה עָתִיד לִטְּלָהּ מִמֶּנִּי - The Nishama will be preserved after death

    וּלְהַחֲזִירָהּ בִּי לֶעָתִיד לָבוא - After T'chiyas HaMeisim, Hashem will return the Nishamos to their previous bodies,

    Posted 6 years ago #
  41. YW Moderator-39
    Inactive

    Sorry Moish

    Posted 6 years ago #
  42. Jax
    Member

    anonymisss: the neshama should have an aliya! i really liked that devar torah!

    Posted 6 years ago #
  43. anonymisss
    Member

    jax, amen;( and thank you.

    ~a~

    Posted 6 years ago #
  44. kapusta
    CR Queen - “Best of luck. Avoid roasted cabbage, don’t eat earwax, and look on the bright side of life!”

    anonymisss, GREAT DT!!! I actually started doing that around last summer. may the neshama have an aliyah.

    *kapusta*

    I like the ones on davening, we need to have more of them.

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  45. YW Moderator-72
    Retired Moderator

    this is the last of 5 submissions via email from JayMatt19 while he may not have access to post.

    5. Beis HaLevi

    There is a Mitzva ואהבת לרעך כמוך.

    The love of all is a mitzva from the Torah. Chazal state that this mitzva encompasses the entire Torah. Ther reason behind this is that through this mitzvam one separates themself from inproper middos like anger and jealocy.

    A ger has an added mitzva, therefore we see that by a ger there are 2 positive commandments.

    Therefore, one needs to train their heart to love every Jew. When one fails to do so, the fail to fulfill this positive commandment AND if this leads to hatred, then they also violate the negative commandment of Hating a Jew. WHICH IS ONE OF THE WORST AVEIROS IN THE TORAH.

    As Chazal say in pirkei Avos: Hatred towards other Jews removes one from the world.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  46. kapusta
    CR Queen - “Best of luck. Avoid roasted cabbage, don’t eat earwax, and look on the bright side of life!”

    What happens next week when we run out of the 5 submissions?

    *kapusta*

    Posted 6 years ago #
  47. chofetzchaim
    Member

    Mussar HaTorah

    Torah Insights into Human Nature – Dedicated in memory of Rabbi A. Henach Leibowitz zt"l

    1 Iyar, 5769 Vol. 10, No. 26 Parshios Tazria – Metzorah

    “And these are the rules of the metzora…” (Vayikra 14:2) The Midrash (Devarim Rabbah 6:10) quotes a verse in Koheles (5:5) where Shlomo HaMelech discusses the sin of loshon hara and its consequences: “Don’t let your mouth sin against your body…” When one speaks loshon hara, the Midrash explains, he begins a chain reaction that causes his posessions and eventually his body to be punished with tzara’as – a spiritual disease with physical manifestations. The Midrash continues to explain that one cannot claim that no one will know that he spoke evil – Hashem sends an angel who listens and reports every word that one says. “If you do not believe [this],” the Midrash tells us, remember that Miriam spoke loshon hara and she was punished for her slight indiscretion.

    We must assume that the Midrash is speaking to a believer in Hashem and the Torah. Otherwise, it would be purposeless for the Midrash to quote verses from Koheles and from other sources. A heretic would just shrug them all off. If, however, we are talking to a Jew who has emunah in Hashem, how can the Midrash give the final advice, “If you do not believe [that you will get tzara’as]”? How can this faithful Jew, who accepts Hashem’s existence and the Divine origin of the Torah we quote to him, not believe that Hashem will punish him for his sins? Furthermore, if he does, in fact, lack this this fundamental belief in reward and punishment, how will the story of Miriam change his attitude? Why would this incident be more effective than the verses we already quoted to him about tzara’as?

    The Midrash is revealing an eye-opening insight to us about the vulnerability of the human mind. Apparently, even if we are complete ma’aminim – believers – we can be swept up in the “temporary insanity” of the sin of loshon hara. This “madness” can create a hole in the solid wall of our emunah and cause us to disregard and momentarily forget the most basic concepts; ideas that we would never question were we not in the grips of the desire to speak loshon hara. This “amnesia” allows to speak evil of our friends and show no concern for the severe punishment that awaits us.

    Nevertheless, there is an amazing remedy provided by the Torah. This “temporary insanity” can be easily cured, using one of the key tools of mussar: using tziyur chushi, or vivid imagery. We need only focus on an illustration, an example of the punishment. Picturing in our minds – as vividly as possible – the story of Miriam, can snap us back to reality. This technique is so potent because a visual image speaks to the emotions, the most powerful forces in determining our actions. Even one being blinded and confused by the passions of sin, who has denied basic principles of our faith, can be redirected onto the right path by the potent medicine of visualization.

    May we realize our greatness but also our frailties, and never let down our guard against the yetzer hara. Let us utilize the effective techniques of mussar, especially vivid imagery, to awaken and mobilize our emotions to fight the power of the passions, so that we emerge triumphant in our battles for spiritual growth and perfection.

    Based on the talks of Rabbi A. Henach Leibowitz zt”l, Rosh HaYeshiva of Yeshivas Chofetz Chaim – RSA
    © 2009 by Rabbi Aryeh Striks & Rabbi Shimon Zehnwirth. For more information call (818) 505-7999 or visit torahstation.com

    Posted 6 years ago #
  48. Jax
    Member

    Jymatt: very nice, now the 5 via email are done!
    chofetz chaim: well done!

    Posted 6 years ago #
  49. JayMatt19
    Member

    It is late, but nobody posted anything so here goes:

    In davening we say "מִי כָמכָה בָּאֵלִים ה'. מִי כָּמכָה נֶאְדָּר בַּקּדֶשׁ". Why do we say both כָמכָה without the dagesh as well as כָּמכָה with the dagesh? The addition of the dagesh shows addred force or strength. So what we are acknowleging here is that Hashem will often be passive at times which are confusing to us כָמכָה, soft, yet will seemingly punish someone with force at the slightest infraction כָּמכָה.

    We praise Hashem for this and we also show that we admittedly as removed from understanding Hashem's ways.

    As a side point, if you look in the Tanach, whenever Refuah is mentioned as coming from Hashem, it is without a dagesh, and when mentioned coming from a doctor with a dagesh. This is because only Hashem can bring a true refuah without any added pain (e.g. the dentist drilling more before fixing a tooth).

    Posted 6 years ago #
  50. kapusta
    CR Queen - “Best of luck. Avoid roasted cabbage, don’t eat earwax, and look on the bright side of life!”

    JayMatt, very interesting!

    *kapusta*

    Posted 6 years ago #

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