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  • #614002
    popa_bar_abba
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    Communication is hard, and men and women communicating is even harder then regular. (Regular is where I talk to other men and they pretend to listen while actually wondering how long the line is and whether I’ll ever shut up.)

    Especially for frum men who don’t have a lot of exposure to communicating with women and trying to convey ideas in a way that will be understood, and are unfamiliar with how the ideas need to be packaged so that they will be effectively accepted and processed (and then either agreed with or disagreed with but in all events processed).

    Thanks y’all!

    #1036610
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    I didn’t understand that.

    Must have been the female popa posting.

    #1036611
    🍫Syag Lchochma
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    assuming this is the thread that was inspired from the other thread – a smidge insulting to the gender, wouldn’t you say?

    #1036612
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    Which gender?

    #1036613
    popa_bar_abba
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    It was.

    And I disagree. My wife could have written the same thread about trying to communicate with men.

    #1036614
    🍫Syag Lchochma
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    And your format is that of rambling. I don’t ramble. I just know that there are certain posters who latch on to side points and try to redo your whole post so I was covering all bases.

    #1036615
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    #1036616
    popa_bar_abba
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    Right. So for example, I have no idea what you are trying to say in that last post, Syag. This is a good learning for both of us.

    #1036617
    🍫Syag Lchochma
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    Right. So for example, I have no idea what you are trying to say in that last post, Syag.

    Yes you do, you chose that writing style on purpose. And you said it was I who inspired it. ergo, you think I was rambling.

    This is a good learning for both of us.

    Is it now? What have you learned?

    #1036618
    popa_bar_abba
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    I honestly have no idea what you are talking about. For realies. Scout’s honor (if I was a scout).

    One thing I just learned is that sometimes you will be convinced I am trying to be manipulative or clever in some way that I cannot even comprehend, and I should account for that possibility when reading your posts.

    #1036619
    🍫Syag Lchochma
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    wow! that’s really deep stuff!

    So yes, I have found that despite your superior intelligence and cynicism combined, there are times when you certainly display cunning that you then deny. Can popa truly be so innocent? I should account for that possibility when reading your posts.

    #1036620
    🍫Syag Lchochma
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    I am having trouble processing the facts tho,

    If you were not intentionally rambling in the post that you claim I inspired, and the post is certainly not written in your typical straightforward format, then what was the inspiration and why the change in writing style?

    #1036621
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    What is this thread about?

    #1036622
    popa_bar_abba
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    Alternatively, I’m telling the truth. I am.

    Just like I was here http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/on-a-plane?view=all#post-363418

    #1036623
    🍫Syag Lchochma
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    and may I add that I feel more peaceful already.

    #1036624
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    FWIW, I believed almost everything you wrote in that thread.

    #1036625
    popa_bar_abba
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    Good, because every single thing in that thread was true. Best snowboarding trip ever.

    #1036626
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    There’s still one part I remain skeptical about.

    #1036627
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    I decided not to post which part I’m skeptical about, because the women won’t understand.

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