hakatan are you telling me that before I became more frum I was a sinner? you know its people like you that almost turned me away from becoming this frum.
when I was baruch Hashem in a growth phase I had a friend who told me I was not frum enough because I had not started wearing tights. meanwhile she was wearing very tight revaeling clothes with tights. i was almost turned off from becoming as frum as I am by being looked down upon and being told I was simply not doing things right.
please look at the other perspective.