Get rid of the resume, that should solve the “crisis” stop shopping for people like _you_ decide who to marry and start trusting G-d in bringing you whoever is actually right for you. Your dealing with human beings. with feelings and a need for dignity. Stop looking into people like thier criminals and start acting with more _faith_ you. Can’t. Control. Reality. You can only discern right and wrong for yourself and the only way to do that is if you rate. We are obsessed with control. you need to marry someone you like. Not someone who checks all your boxes. Someone who you see yourself being able to live with not someone who is perfect.
