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June 18, 2015 6:39 pm at 6:39 pm #615864lokshinkigelMember
Are there certain guidelines one is supposed to follow when dating regarding what type of venue to take a girl to on what # date and specific topics that should be talked about on certain dates?
June 18, 2015 11:23 pm at 11:23 pm #1088249I. M. ShluffinParticipantYes.
June 19, 2015 1:07 am at 1:07 am #1088250ironpenguinMemberYes, there are many.
Contact your local post-seminary girl for detailed instructions.
June 19, 2015 3:05 am at 3:05 am #1088251yehudayonaParticipantBe sure to write the topics on your sleeve so you can refer to it when you run out of things to say.
June 22, 2015 3:23 am at 3:23 am #1088252I. M. ShluffinParticipantIn fact, have a shadchan contact your local post-seminary girl for detailed instructions.
June 22, 2015 6:08 am at 6:08 am #1088254ExcellenceParticipantI disagree. I think people make a big deal out of dating procedures. Better to be makpid for family purity, no tv, kashrus, hair covering, and long skirt.
June 22, 2015 4:59 pm at 4:59 pm #1088255popa_bar_abbaParticipantI think it is one of the Protocols of the elders of zion. Ask for it at your local library
June 23, 2015 3:21 am at 3:21 am #1088256WiseyParticipantWhat about driving, bus/train, taxi, car service? Date number
June 23, 2015 11:39 am at 11:39 am #1088257ExcellenceParticipantWell, at least I gave a decent answer…
June 24, 2015 1:19 am at 1:19 am #1088258rewMemberJust speak about LUKSHIN KIGGEL. Each date a different kind. There is Yerushalmi kiggel, sweet lukshin kiggel, lukshen cheese kiggel, salt & pepper kiggel………
June 24, 2015 2:20 am at 2:20 am #1088259qazwsxedcrfvMemberYour wrong excellence it does make a difference to have the proper thing going on and no the family and what they are like is not it matters what the girl who you marry is like not the family
June 24, 2015 4:34 am at 4:34 am #1088260ExcellenceParticipantKnowing the parents well is very important, yes. The Talmud is abundant with advice. And her personality can closely resemble her brother, maternal uncle or father. I think what I meant to say was where you date. Some communities make a big deal to go far away from observation, to have friends along, etc. what I meant was, just take her somewhere nice, who cares if you are seen out on a date. Bring some kosher lunchband talk what’s important to you.
And oh yes – watch the parents well.
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