Philosopher:
Ill try to be Bekitzur. Without Behira one couldn’t grow but at the same time Behira is not the same for everyone. Its all about where you are holding in your personal avodas Hashem. So technically for some people Molesting “may” be beyond their Behira. Its very important to understand that Behira is something between us and Hashem. Meaning, we have no idea what Behira a person is holding at. That is part of the reason we can’t judge people. You don’t know where they were holding yesterday or a month ago. People are always changing. Either growing or chas veshalom moving backwards in their avodas Hashem. So with this in mind its fully possible for someone to be mechallel shabbos and its beyond their current Behira. Maybe last month the person was eating ham for lunch every day and now they stopped but they still have a hard time with Shabbos and may not be ready for Shabbos. Its beyond their current Behira.