Sister Bear, it’s not always a question of the kids’ responsibility. Haven’t we all heard stories about predators? Do you really think that a four-year-old will not talk to a stranger, especially one that looks okay and/or has a yummy treat for them? I once saw a little girl, no older than 7, actually engage a stranger in conversation as he was walking through the development. And I don’t mean that she just said hello, she perkily said, “Hi! What’s your name? Where do you live?” Some kids are just friendly! Of course, there was no mother in sight, and I made sure to stay nearby until the man was gone. Honestly, where are the parents?
The world is a sick place nowadays, and we have to do everything in our power to keep our precious children safe. There is no excuse for not watching young children outside.