Here is a twist. my wife recently called the head of a very well known seminary to ask about a girl who just attended the seminary.She refused to answer any questions because she had discovered that a number of girls had started having people call her to find out what she was saying about them! So, my wife would have to “prove” that she was actually asking on behalf of my son. I really don’t blame her at all but my wife was dumbfouded. The irony of it all was that i was actually a talmud of her rosh yeshiva husband and ate shalush suodos at their house every week for a year. Anyway while my wife didnt call her back we found out enogh fantastic stuff about the girl from a dozen other people so when my son gets out of the freezer….
