I don’t see how that changes anything. The point is, she says this whole thing that is essentially feminist and then says it’s not about feminism. So what is it about? What DO you think feminism is about?
Oh, it’s also not about trying to be like men. Aha.
(Also, the use of “nor” does not show any technical differentiation between two items. In most cases where nor is used, it is to show an equivalence [i.e. the “neither/nor” construct].)