Wolf, you gave two reasons that visitation should not be withheld. You wrote that a child needs both parents, and that it’s a parent’s right to see his child (I agree with both).
If it were only for the sake of the parent, withholding a get would be unthinkable.
Isn’t it at least reasonable to consider the udea of withholding a get, though, for the other reason, to force the non-compliant parent to allow the child to have a relationship with both parents?
(For this discussion, I will consider the woman’s nonacceptance of the get to be the same as the man’s withholding it.)