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The non Jewish concept of love and the Jewish one are polar opposites. Non Jewish love is about trying out the model first and if you like it you keep. Its based on selfish lusting for the opposite gender. Jewish marriage and relationships are about selflessness and giving.
Even what you do in the bedroom is about giving and the chiyuv on the man is to give to his wife its not about getting your tayvos fulfilled.
I can’t even believe I need to point this out to someone who claims to have semicha.