Actually Romance is not about “lust” at all. Romance is about “giving” and “pleasing”. “lust” is about taking so all those arguing with PBA have no concept of Romance and have no clue what PBA is talking about.
PBA, I hear you loud and clear. You can find beauty in many places. A song can make you cry and a poem can as well. There are many songs, even romantic songs that were taken from tehillim. Not every decade and era used vulgar language as this decade and the previous decade did. There were songs that I heard in stores after my father was nifter that made me burst out in tears and run from the store. They just touched me and something in the words just reminded me of him. No matter how much you try not to listen your subconscious picks it up. And when you are in love and hear a song that touches your heart and says the words that you would love to relate or express to your spouse but somehow were not able to verbalize or compose on your own it gets to you and you might want to share it to relay your own feelings.