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I agree, and therefore re-wrote most of these tales when telling my grandchildren these fairytales. In it, Goldilocks apologizes to the Three Bears for entering their home without permission and using their things, they invite her to join them for dinner, because it is a mitzvah to invite guests, and she apologizes to her mommy for leaving the house without her knowledge.
Little Red Riding Hood gets a similar treatment, only she is bringing a Shabbos treat to her Bubby, and he learns the meaning of sharing and apologizes for trying to trick her and for hiding her Bubby in the closet. Of course, she invites him to join them for an Oneg Shabbos party.
The three little pigs end up telling the wolf that if he was so hungry, all he had to do was ask nicely, and they invite him to share a meal also. (See my recurring theme of hachnossas orchim?) My very wise little granddaughter told me today, “But Bubby, how could the three pigs do hachnossas orchim? They aren’t even KOSHER!
I never call Cinderella’s stepmother her wicked stepmother, either. I just call her the Bossy Lady and her two daughters.
For anyone who might think this is dumbing down the stories, or whatever, there is enough ugliness in the world. I prefer to tell tales that have a good point to them.
Apropos of Rockabye Baby, many years ago I posted my own original alternate ending to the song (and my granddaughter will insist that my version is THE version). “When the bough breaks, the cradle won’t fall, ki Hashem Elokeinu, shomeir al ha-kol.”