I think it’s funny that we are graded on our Torah learning for 12 years (or more depending whether we go to seminary or Jewish college), but then we are called feminists if we are jealous we cannot learn Gemara.
My opinion is that is doesn’t make sense for us to be graded on Torah subjects, because it totally misses the point of what Torah learning is…..However, I think everyone can understand that it makes it confusing when we are FORCED to learn Torah for all those years in Bais Yaakov but if we try to learn what we are taught is ‘the most important thing to learn’, suddenly we are kofrim and misguided. It comes across as hypocritical, controlling and insulting.