DY – that’s right, I don’t.
I might agree with your assumption. In which case we should not be saying, as someone earlier did (and you agreed) that their thought process inherently lacks logic.
I have seen R’ Wolbe z”l understand it in an entirely different light. I wouldn’t want to limit his words to my take on them – Alei Shur Chelek Beis page 192. I can understand why someone wouldn’t agree to read that into this halacha, but at least it’s a perspective on women that I can understand (though I’m sure many would be insulted).
BYM – I agree entirely with DY’s response to you. Though I would add that this new reality does requires a proper, realistic response – as I indicated in my last post.