health, I understand your misguided point very well and I consider it to be as valid as your knowledge of the Italian language.
Capisce?
Popa, how sad that there would be any stigma over something caused, for example, by a chemical imbalance in the brain (e.g. clinical depression) as opposed to an imbalance in the blood (e.g. leukemia). Both are illnesses.
Under health‘s reasoning, the person with the BMI of 33 (morbidly obese) has gotten there wilfully and continues to eat himself into the grave, because, supposedly he wants to. Too bad some can’t cut these folks a break and say they, too are ill!