i know quite a few really good guys 24 – 25 that are still not really “in the parsha”,
For good reasons ,most of them its for financial reasons, its not easy these days 🙁
A woman needs a man she can respect, for example he can work and support the family OR he can dedicate his life to learning Torah.
Those who aren’t up to par in that area are setting themselves up for a tough married life.
Take your time, Be a man your woman can respect =)