Reply To: skeletons

Poppa,very cute story but really that’s the argument for telling someone… a person grows up in their lifetime and what they do is part of development, ur not gonna tell ur spouse every time u sucked ur thumb or that u wore diapers as a child or numerous other things that people do that are part of developing As a human being… so in short yes it should make a difference what u would or wouldn’t say, especially if the spouse will gain nothing from it.

And haleeivi, we are obviously talking about a case where a person makes a mistake and then respeccted opinions agree that they are past it like a therapist or a rebbe or teacher. They don’t make that decision on their own. But regardless, murder? Really that’s what ur comparing a mistake someone makes throughout their life too? A mistake that harmed nobody except themselves compared to an action that ended 3 lives ?? I understand it was just an example/joke but it has to be in congruence one hurt others and one did not.