Apushtayid thats exactly what im saying! I was sitting in the car with someone once and the car in front of us kept making lane changes without warning. She said something like “that guy is so stupid” and started honking. I stoped her and said look, what he is doing isnt proper, he could get someone into an accident but you never know why hes doing it. Maybe his mother is vey sick and hes rushing to see her. Therefore his actions are to blame not him himself.
Its easy to judge others than it is to judge ourselves but the farther we tell ourself that jews are sinners if they don’t act like us the worse off our ahavas yisroel is going to be!!