pba: I was being sarcastic, but thanks for admitting you can’t judge avodas Hashem like that. RE the second part, you really don’t know your MO yeshivot, do you? The ones who flip out buy hats, the ones who wear their tzitzis out without hats frummed up before they went to Israel.
BP Totty: Thanks. The last girl I dated did not really answer to that description, though she was close.