even girls who aren’t looking for BMG guys are having trouble finding shidduchim, don’t kid yourself that thats all that everyone wants and thats why theres a shidduch crisis
You have a pronoun “that’s” which is undefined. Are you telling me that girls do not ever reject guys (for any reason) because “all girls just want a shudduch”?
Remember, in Europe (and even now by Chassidim to some extent) the girls really don’t have much of a say in the matter.