I think it’s a combination of three things. First, women, naturally, are tzanua and more internal and naturally the only man’s opinion that we care about is our father or husband. Generally (NOT always), if a woman is vying for attention from other males, it’s being she’s not beingnmade to feel special by the ones who do matter. Second, when you break a woman’s midda by convincing her that she WANTS to be the breadwinner and that being a STAH is for sissies, you can imagine there will be repercussions. Third is that you notice what you want to. I look around and notice thaat the girls in my neighborhood do a ton of chessed. Other people, either the guys who like noticing or the girks who wish they could dress that way, complain that the shaitels are too long. I feel like if you really valued tznius you wouldnt be checking everyone out.
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