no way! i finished HS, went to sem, (came back straightened out!) got a job, and started college. i go to classes regularly and i’m 100% looking to marry a guy who plans on staying in learning for as long as possible.
i know he’s a lot younger than i am, but i can’t see any of those things in the near (or distant???) future for him. ask him how religious he is – i’m not exactly sure myself.