” Just because your friend feels this way, does not mean she speaks for the majority of women who bedavka buy these gorgeous and expensive robes to be especially worn at the Shabos tish. If one chooses to use such a robe in a cavalier way by wearing it to bed, thus risking RUINING it, that is certainly her prerogative”
i said it was a shabbos robe; didnt describe it so you are assuming what it looked like. it was a velour robe, one that was sold to be worn as most ppl wear a shabbos robe. but thats besides the point. this was a lesson I learned, that i took to heart, not one i said others should follow. my BFF’s wear their robes out of the house. its thier choice, as it is yours as well. but i do think that sequins, rhinestones etc are a bit flashy, (attention getting) which defeat the purpose.
what catches the eye more? a well fitting robe with decorations, or a robe that is just a drop too loose? its all in perspective
(this is all OPINION. not forcing this on anyone)