Considering the fact that there are many schools that are already stretched to capacity, it is a wonder why there are parents who ambush their children’s opportunity to get into the school they think they would like by insisting on non – conformance with the school standards.
Just like a school has to work with parents, the converse is at least as much true.
Why would you expect a school to go out of its way to accept children beyond its capacity, when the parents have no interest in conforming with school standards? They are setting their children up for failure by the conflicting messages they are sending to their children.
And I say this as being aware of what happens in a school where a family member works. And it is not even a “super farfrumte” school, rather it is a typical Yeshiva.