The therapist’s rov? Who is the therapist’s rov? What does he know about your family? What does he and his third hand information have to do with you?
More importantly: What kind of therapist cites her rov as an opinion on issues of which he knows nothing about?
(Your therapist pays your son to come? Do you mean that you pay the therapist to pay your son to come? Why are you sneaking around your son instead of being honest with him? Where do you think he learned to sneak around you?)