Hereorthere, everyone is saying “men have taavos” and I’m explaining women have them too. I didn’t say that its OK to dress in an untzniusdig (there you go Oomis!) way, but the same way people are trying to get women to understand men struggle, women struggle too…
Where did I say its ok to dress in a way that isn’t consistent with what your Rav allows? All I said was there is a debate within halacha.
And we don’t call someone who speaks lashon hara “not frum.”