Wellinformedyid says “Besides why would a frum married woman want to attract the eyes of other married men? I will be dan lekaf zchus that that is not their intention because if it is then we have very huge problems on our hands.”
I’m hesitant to call you naive, but i think if there isn’t such a problem yet then it’s pretty close to being a problem. How about when there is a congregation of couples; isn’t this lack of tznius going to lead to problems? or similar situations?