“Zero tolerance for leitzonus of those who are on a higher madreiga of tznius. Praise them for it, hold them up as role models, even if you’re not up to it yet.”
Its hard to hold up as a role model someone who looks down upon you. From many of the responses written on this site, and elsewhere, I can perfectly understand why women (I’m not a woman, so I can not claim to be speaking from experience in this matter) simply dont take many of the self proclaimed tznius kanayim seriously, especially when they are men.