msseeker, we seem to be on the same wavelength.
In today’s liberal times you get a whole musser schmuez that you have no right to judge people who sin, look down at them etc.
HELLO, that’s NOT the point.
If a tzniusdige woman talks to a non-tzniusdige woman she might not even realize what the other person is wearing. And if she does what’s the difference?
Instead of focusing on the problems and changing what needs to be changed, a lot of problems get pushed under the rug because you gotta make a hush, hush otherwise you’ll appear as if you’re JUDGING others. Give me a break.