thanx, I appreciate it. Sometimes (more than sometimes) I feel like taking a hammer and banging them over the head with it. Or just screaming at them and say your a normal person, do you realize what you’re doing to your life and your future. I know some are strong enough and some are not. What will stop the next generation in 15-20 years from doing the exact same thing, if not sooner? She at least waited until she almost graduated school so maybe she has some inkling of guilt within her. What about the people who are already involved at 12 or 13? Good thing is, one of the “stronger” ones, has pulled away a little.
btw, I dont think she would consider herself OTD but shes heading there very fast, I dont think shes being mechallel shabbos or anything, but the davening stopped months, if not years ago. The biggie is her entertainment and the parts that shes interested in.