Lior, you and DY may be overestimating the times there is a ???? ?????
Regardless of whether it’s technically worthy of a psak of mitzvah l’garshah (and you are unfairly harping on a technicality which I admitted I was guessing about), it would still be the right thing in terms of Gan Eden, propriety, etc.
ZD, what are you referring to regarding a dayan?