I’m fascinated by the ‘chassidish way’ of “dating”. I’m not chassidish and find that i would never be able to “date” the ‘chassidish way’. However, that’s just the way i was brought up. (litvish)
I dont think that dating gets you any closer to knowing the truth about someone than a sit in. I’m married a couple of years and still learn new things about my husband every day. Its a growingand learning experience and i wish you the best and much hatzlacha!