If I understand Charlie Hall correctly if I decide to wear tefillin on chol hamoed then I would only have to wait 1 hour after meat for dairy-sign me up! it is certainly worth it.
That being said there should be a better way for women to express simchas hatorah ( not they necessarily should hold a torah )than watching men dance. Certainly single women should have their own programs to celebrate and enjoy the yom tov. I could see married women enjoying seeing their kids dance with their father so let them choose if they want to go to shul or go to the amazing women’s program.