“You should train yourself, even if it is difficult, to enjoy and treasure the day watching the menfolk dancing joyously with the Torah.”
There are many things a person can train himself to do, why should they do this? Perhaps there is a better solution to enhance a woman’s joy on simchas torah then to force her to like something she does not. As long as the solution is halachically okay, why can’t our communities come up with a way to beautify the yom tov for both men and women?