Gefen, you are correct, and certainly this should be every yochid’s mental approach to their own situation.
When it comes to helping others, though, emunah and bitachon (as it relates to action or inaction) are misplaced. The statistics we hear and read tell us of a problem al pi teva which, as a society, can’t simply be ignored.
So when askanim such as SY Rechnitz and the folks at NASI bring this communal issue to the forefront, people’s reactions and “responses” dealing with their own personal situations are really separate issues that happen to have the word “shidduchim” in common.
Mazel Tov, may you have much nachas, and may many more simchas follow.