You are so wrong, HaKatan.
It is not necessary to consult a posek or one’s Rav to determine whether it is proper to instill in our own hearts, or our children’s, a deep love for Eretz Yisrael.
If someone is considering a move from chutz la’Aretz to E”Y (or a move from E”Y to Chu”l, or even a move from Antwerp to Cleveland) it is wise and proper to have a discussion first with a Rav who is familiar with the circumstances regarding the person considering the move, and his family if he’s fortunate not to be moving alone.