A man in the presence of an unwell 90 year old woman who is not dressed properly cannot daven. The likelihood that he will feel any sort of physical attraction is just not there. The fact that this doesn’t make sense to you, or anybody else, doesn’t change anything.”
OK, I shoulda, coulda, woulda, made an emoticon to show I was speaking tongue in cheek. Of course, what you said is correct. I was making fun of the fact that what most women do is not even remotely anything resembling dancing these days, (so the men are not actually watching females dance), but of course, the idea is they should not be watching them no matter HOW bad the so-called dancing is.
(Golfer, still nice to be appreciated, even when you disagreed with my ill-disguised attempt at humor). FTR, however, how do you explain the idea that on Tu B’Av, the young unmarried females specifically got all glammed up and danced in front of the single men (for purposes of shidduchim)?