I’m with ya!
I also think it’s funny when people like to stereotype everything but change it constantly. Like the 1 year old who doesn’t speak, “because he has so many older siblings to speak for him” and the other one year old who speaks so well because, “he has so many older siblings to learn from”
Why can’t someone’s poor skills be attributed to their learning abilities? Why can’t someone’s high level thinking be attributed to their learning abilities? Why can’t someone’s obnoxious behavior be attributed to his intrinsically negative personality? Some people just seem to enjoy the “blame game” – it’s the chareidi school system, it’s the tri-state attitude, it’s the OOT ignorance.
Feh!