DY- don’t make the mistake of thinking that I present myself in the CR the way I do IRL. And even in the CR I only take that tone because I know its a waste of time with you or AZ (n.b. you are very much like Joseph in this regard, having one sided debates and demanding that your opponents repeat themselves time and again or you win the debate by default). You are farkoift and shut off to all reasoning; anything and everything to you only supports your foregone conclusion to force boys to close the age gap.
Also, I haven’t been ignored, I’ve had endless dialogue. I didn’t convince NASI folks to stop, but I know it was not because of my approach.
The reason not to manipulate people into closing the age gap is because you don’t have any evidence that doing so is actually beneficial. If there were an actual reliable study that took into consideration all relevant factora, which showed that we should expect a census of shidduch age folkz to consistently be imbalanced year after year because of age differences, then we could talk. Nothing of that nature is even being considered, the backers of this would take any mumbo jumbo out of a garbage can if they thoughg it would support their cause. Latching on to Avi Chai demonstrates this. I won’t speculate here as to why.