A long while ago, I wondered if I would be interested in my beshert. Then I settled for someone who wasn’t exactly for me. We broke up. That was years ago. From what I learned over time, the important thing is that you both have common values and goals, for example, do you want a big family, or small one? Plus, see if you feel some emotional connection. This usually grows over time. If you deep down don’t want to be with them, don’t. But talk with a mentor or rabbi first.
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