How can you compare to the example of someone stealing?! It states clearly that everything is in the hands of Hashem EXCEPT for Yiras Shamayim (the choice between doing Aveiros or Mitzvos). That clearly means that Hishtadlus accomplishes nothing, it’s still all up to Hashem. Of course He wants us to make effort in order to allow for events to happen in the natural order, but again, worrying about age and all minds if other desperate solution seeking accomplishes zero. Only Tefiila and Emunah. Only Hashem decides and decides when and if to make it happen. Not the Shadchanim, not the Rabbanim, not the many so called solutions will work.
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