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DY, I was stunned to read that there was a poster requesting that your post be removed because you dared suggest (!!) that the ‘bas kol’ is not a guarantee that everyone will get married. What?!

But then I was not surprised after all.

Squeak is right. We have a problem, no doubt about that. And the celebrity endorsements stand firmly behind the blame-free theory.

Please DY, don’t confuse us with facts. Facts don’t belong on a forum like this one. What we need here is to make everyone feel good about themselves, solutions to problems notwithstanding. Real change, real examination of how shadchanim and people in shidduchim operate- those may well lead to solutions that are not ‘blame-free’ (thanks, squeak).

And nobody wants that.