Would you suggest to a career-oriented woman with a good job at a good company, where marriage and child-birth will be career slowing events inhibiting her advancement to rather choose to delay marriage until her upper 40s and forgo having children – because as you said she h a s no commandment to have children and she defines herself by her advancing career that she wouldn’t want to risk derailing with maternity leave?
kapusta- is the problem that the loshon is not PC?