I never ever quote anything cuz I’m not smart enough too, but one thing i do know: “Chanoch l’naar al pi darko”. Each child is different, and what’s beneficial for one could be a pitfall for another. No one can go out and make a blatant statement that says all high school girls should or should not have internet.
Torahmom – I’m so happy to hear that you have a wonderful daughter and I hope you find the proper place for her next year, and you should see only nachas from her!
batseven – glad you were able to survive until now without the shmutz, but you can’t say that this is the way to go with everyone just because YOU didn’t feel stifled. There are plenty that do.