No, SL, I mean it. I really do!! I’m pretty much involved in my children’s chinuch, all aspects. I can discern when one did have an issue that day just be the looks, I have an easy-going rapport with Rabbeim, teachers and principals.. Right you are, some of my children have had run ins… some have had issues.. still no abuse at all, in any shape or form. And in all my years of being a parent I cannot recall any complaint of a Rebbie or teacher who acted out of anger. All the one’s I’ve come across are well disciplined, Yerei Shamaim, caring and devoted. The future Posek Hador and Roshei Yeshiva of Brisk (my sons) are a product of their work.
I don’t know where you live, maybe it’s time to emigrate to NY… (sure, you hear stories… but it’s NOT THE NORM – that’s why it’s a story)